‘Married at First Sight’ Star Jamie Otis Epically Clapped Back at Mom-Shamer Over Highly Rude Potty Training Remark

Jamie Otis is shutting down the mom-shamers for coming at her over potty training. 

The former Married at First Sight star was livid after receiving a message from a follower asking why her two-year-old daughter Henley Grace isn’t yet potty trained. 

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I have a rainbow baby in my arms & a rainbow baby in my belly.????????????????I’ve never felt more *BLESSED*!????????????…and the way Gracie girl is hugging her baby brother in the last two pics.???? #meltmyheart ???? • In other news, I went to the doc and heard my pap was bad & I have HPV. Although it sounds like an STD and I should freak the F out, I know this is somewhat common and not to be overly worried about. I was scheduled to have a colposcopy just to take a better look at the skin cells in my vagina.????Also, not really a big deal as long as the doc doesn’t see dysplasia…if she does then it could be a sign of early cancer.???? I took a video while I was at the doctors getting the colposcopy-I put the link to our @hotmarriagecoolparents YouTube page in my bio if you wanna watch. At that point I didn’t know whether to worry or not. It could be absolutely nothing. • Buuut, I got the call today saying that my doc did see dysplasia & since I’m pregnant we will have to wait to biopsy my cervix until after I have the baby. • My head’s been all over the place. Thoughts go from “I’m sure I’m fine. I had this with Gracie too.” But then I can’t help but wonder, “What if?!”???? • I’ve had two friends reach out to me. One was like, “oh you’ll be fine. So many friends had this.”???????? Another said, “I may have to have a hysterectomy after they found that in me bc I have actual cancer now.”???? • So I just have to wait until after I have the baby to really know what’s going on inside me, but I’m just putting the positive vibes out there & praying & being so THANKFUL for my health.???????? • I couldn’t help but think about all the women who are pregnant and find out super scary news like they actually do have cancer or a fatal disease and they’re left with the tough decision: treat yourself while pregnant to save your life but risk losing the baby OR take your chances and postpone treatment to save your baby.???? I cannot even imagine having to make that decision.???? My heart goes out to those mamas. If you’re one of them, I’m sending you SO MUCH LOVE.???? • • • #rainbowbaby #pregnancyupdate #secondtrimester #pregnancystyle #bump #pregnancy #pregnantbelly #pregnancyafterloss #preggo

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In response to a video of Henley on the proud mama’s Instagram Story, the follower sent a message saying, “So clever. And yet not potty trained?” 

Um, excuse us?! Fortunately, Otis took the time to share the unsolicited mom-shaming remark with her response.

That’s when Jamie took a screenshot of the message and shared with an eye-roll emoji, writing, “Really?!”

She went on to say that she has tried to potty train her little one twice, but had “failed” both times. She followed that up with, “I should just scream fuxidnd you to!!!” Clearly, Otis has no time for mom-shamers. 

RELATED: ‘Teen Mom’ Star Kailyn Lowry Claps Back at Mom-Shamers Following Ridiculous Potty Training Backlash

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❤️ $2400 GIVEAWAY closed.❤️ Congrats @sarah_reger_ @bailey_raeee @shancapri @shaelakae @annapixiemommy @gabrielleadelleg @meganjolissaint @justine.maria89 @lianafam @arika_mccollough @annapixiemommy @morganhontz • Throw back to the day we found out we’re having a baby BOY!???????????? Pretty sure everyone was happy about it-including big sissy, Gracie!???? That little fist bump to her daddy.???? #meltmyheart ☺️ • I am always asked about where I find these twinning dresses and I am SO FREAKIN’ HAPPY TO TELL YOU THAT YOU COULD GET A SET FO’ FREE!????‍♀️ Me and a few other girls you’ll LOVE want to give 12 of y’all $200 each to @ivycityco to snag beautiful dresses for you and your little ones! This would make such a great gift if you’re an aunt, grandma, or to treat yourself with some darling outfits! • Here’s how to enter: 1️⃣ LIKE this pic 2️⃣Tag a friend in a comment. More friends tagged = more entries (1 friend per comment please!) • *BONUS ENTRY: Share this post to your stories and TAG US!???? ???? That’s it! 12 winners randomly chosen and announced next Sunday night!Good luck, girlfraaaaaans!????

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She concluded with the very succint: “Mommy shamers are the WORST.” We’d have to agree!

In related news, Jamie Otis is currently pregnant and expecting her second child.

The reality star is currently expecting her second child and has been sharing all of the milestones with her followers. 

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If you’re someone hoping for BIG changes next year, this is for you.???? 1 year later: same place, same time.???? (Our hearts & my belly have grown WITH SO MUCH LOVE.)????????‍♂️???????????????????????????? • We went to the @thegroveresort last year with two goals: 1)bond as a family and 2) make a baby! • And that we did!☺️ We found out the moment we got home that I was pregnant! But that pregnancy ended up being a chemical pregnancy. Then a couple months later we were pregnant again, only to lose that one at 10 weeks.???????????????? • This year we *had* to go back to this same resort bc its AMAZING. We spent every single day of our trip staying right there bc it has everything we wanted-surfari park with heated pools, splash pads, a spa, yummy restaurants & the kindest staff. The only thing we changed was we brought my side & Dougs side of the fam with us.???? AND I have a healthy baby boy growing big and strong in my belly.???????????????? • A lot of you know this, but for those of you who’ve been #ttc or who’ve suffered from a loss recently and your heart *aches* for your belly to be overflowing with a healthy baby inside, I hear ya mama. My heart goes out to ya.???????? I was in the same position last year at this exact time. While i felt *so fortunate* for my daughter my heart ached for those babies. And I gotta be honest, I was a bit of a negative Nancy thinking, “will we ever be able to have a healthy pregnancy/baby again?!” • For those of you who feel this way-you aren’t alone. Im so sorry you’re going through this pain during the holidays. But please know that A LOT can happen in one year. We spent 18 mo #ttc and when we finally gave up and went to the fertility specialist we found out we are pregnant!????????Don’t lose hope, mama. And find those people who are in your corner supporting ya. I’m here for you! • And for those of you who have different goals: don’t you give up either! You’ve got this!???????????? • • #tryingtoconceive #pregnancyafterloss #marriedatfirstsight #mafs #rainbowbaby #momlife #momlifebelike #girlmom #momsofinstagram #momprobs #momproblems #pregnant #babybump #preggo #preggers #pregnancydiary #pregnancyjourney #thegroveresort #vacayvibes #vacaymode

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She seems to be enjoying her pregnancy and celebrating her growing bump. 

“I just have to show you. Last time I was in L.A., I had no bump and now I have a really, really big one,” she shared in an Instagram video. “And I absolutely love, love, love every second of it. It’s the best.”

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• I had my ELEVEN week check up and this little munchkin gave me a teeny-tiny scare.???????? • I saw Barbara, my midwife, to make sure this baby is still healthy and strong.???????????? Fun fact, she actually delivered Gracie???? • Not gonna lie, I do get a wee bit nervous every time I go to an appointment.????????‍♀️ All my fears come creeping back up. I *knew* that our baby was fine in my heart, but when it took her some time finding the heartbeat I couldn’t help it…The anxiety hits like a brick.???? I just kept reassuring myself that it’s still sooooo early and it can be hard to find…. gah, I felt SO ????????RELIEVED ???????? when I heard our little one’s heart beating STRONG!! ???????????????????? • And that wasn’t the only good news we found out???????????? We get to find out the gender in TWO weeks!! AHHH just two weeks!!! I go to get the test done in one week and results come back in 5-7 days. I cannot wait????????…better start planning a gender reveal party????????????‍♀️ if you have any suggestions, I’m all ears! We are open to anything!???? • • • #ttc #ttccommunity #tryingtoconceive #ttcjourney #bumppic #pregnant #fertility #firsttrimester #rainbowbaby #infantloss #pregnancyloss #awareness #rainbow #miscarriage #miscarriageawareness #girlmom #boymom #momproblems #pregnancyproblems #preggo #preggers #pregnancylossawareness #doublerainbow #pregnancydiary #momprobs #stopdropandmom #momlife #momlifebelike

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The strong mama has also been transparent about her struggles with fertility and subsequent miscarriages. 

“With this pregnancy, we’ve seen the fertility specialist from the very beginning and graduated to our OB. I’ve had zero bleeding/cramping with this pregnancy so I am confident it is a healthy baby — at least I try my best to stay confident.”

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Her big brother in heaven picked out a good one when he sent us her.???????????? There is not one person on earth who makes me smile more than this little girl…other than her daddy.???? I don’t know how I got so lucky to be her mommy but I thank God, the universe, and my lucky stars every.single.day.✨???????? Third pic is my FAV!???????? • Apparently it’s #nationaldaughterday – I swear social media makes up these holidays bc I’ve never heard of this before.????????‍♀️ Lol. BUT I couldn’t let the day go by without giving my favorite little side kick a big shout out.???? • Video at the end was suppose to be a pic.???? A girlfran (Hi, Katie!!!)came over to us to say hi & let me know she’s been praying for us & our new bundle of joy growing in me????????☺️ …Gah, I just cant say it enough …I am so thankful & feel beyond blessed to have the most supportive, loving, and KIND “Frans”???? I know it may not seem like much to some people, but for me – to know we have an army of ladies sending out prayers and positive vibes and sticky baby dust for us – it means ????????everything???????? to me. So *thank you* again!????????✨ • Next year this time I’ll have two mini-me’s to match with and I CANNOT WAIT!????‍♀️???????? • • • #nationaldaughtersday #twinning #marriedatfirstsight #baby #mafs #motherhood #motherdaughter #matchymatchy #rainbowbaby #nyc #mylittlegirl #stopdropandmom #momsofinstagram #girlmom #bestfran #momlife #momlifeisthebestlife #minime #mygirl #mommysgirl

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“That being said, I’m honestly just so excited and enjoying the blessing of being able to make and carry a baby again! I’d be lying if I didn’t admit I am a little scared too. Of course the fears of loss always creep up, but I try to pray them away and only put out positive vibes into the universe.”

Positive vibes only! We like that! So take note, mom-shamers. ‘Cuz nothing you do could be considered “positive vibes.”